Happy Family

            Marriage is union of two persons as husband and wife. They love each other and marriage will unite them. So marriage is usually based on true love. They have come of age and they are a couple of marriageable age is eighteen. Their powers of body and mind are expected to be fully developed. The marrige is a civil and religious contract between the bride and groom. The religious ceremonies and celebration vary with the customs of the country in which the marriage is held. People of wealth celebrate with festive, that begin two or three days before the wedding and continue four or three days after. The bride is elaborately dressed in bright colour and wears her finest jewelry.the wedding takes place at the home of the bride. The service (for moslem) is perfomed by muslim priest, before at least two male witnesses. The they get marriage certificate.

            At time of marriage, husband and wife have high expectation for happiness. In this stage the family consists of the husband and wife., without any children. They rent a flat, buy or build a home and learn how to manage their money and how to combine their jobs with managing ahousehold. Not all couples are very happy ones. Perhaps a jealous wife doesn’t really care for her husband. If they often quarrel and are disappointed, they may decide to be divorced. The daughters are upset at the decision and weep. The children usually  stay with the mother, and the father is usually able to visit him. But some fathers are given the full care of their children. Teenage children may choose the parent the wish to live with, and some choose the father . in those cases the mother becomes the one who visits. Most pople agree that a family has an important role.

             Our family gives us daily love and car. They love us from when were are babies. They teach us to love and help one another. When we are grown up , they teacher us how to take our own responsibilities. They , even, in the day of our death, take care of our body and pray fo us. If we thing of a family as a group to which people belong from birth until death, then we must think in terms of change. People are changing over times. Each person is first a baby, then a toddler, thrn a school-aged boy or girl, a teenager, a newly-wed, a parent, a finally a grandparent. The nuclear family also changes. First,  they are just the husband and wife . Then they become parents with children. After adult children leave home, the parents are just husband and wife again. When the family is thought of in this way, the differences are called “ The family life Harmonious”

            The first stage in the family life harmonious begins with marriage. In this stage the family consists of the husband and wife. They rent, or building a home, learning how to manager their money and how to combine their jobs with managing a house. The second stage in the family life harmonious begins when the first children is born. In the past, many families had four or more children. Now two children are regarded as the as the ideal number and many families have only one children. The next stage in the family life hamonious centres around school-aged children and teenagers. By this time the father and mother are well settled into their employement. In this stage, children’s lives are  no longer limited to home and day-care centre. The children attend school and belong to clubs with other boys and girls. In the teen years, boys, and girls begin going to mixed parties and dating.

            A happy and Sumakno family is a hope for all people. In such a family, there must be good comminication between parents and children. They love one another. A harmony betwen mother and father will automatically influence their children. At any time children learning and follow how parents speak and that they do. It isn’t wise that parents spoil children. But they discipline then on some cases. Parents have a task to give informal  education on ethics, morality, and simple knowledge. By this way, before being a student, a children has  has already known how to be have nicely. As family is the basic children’s character building, parents must be fully responsible for their children’s education on behaviour. Building career is good and important but it is better for parents to spent some time or special day to be and relax. A mother who doesn’t work in an office but stays at home as a housewife will do her housewife such a preparing daily meals. Anyhow, how busy a mother and father are caring children is a must. What children need most is love.